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                                   THE ABC's of Meeting Mary J​​

 

Will you accept my phone call for information?

I would love to talk with you Sir! Unfortunately, there is a myriad of Spam in relation to Adult Services advertising and they can be very clever in both Phone calls and Texting. Some Elite Providers hire a Assistant due to this reason as targeted malicious situations can arise with Website | Banking | Phone and My Safety.  Additionally,  a long line up of  " inquiry minds " that have absolutely no intentions of booking & erroneous calls providers would like to minimize.

 

The best way to reach me is by my website booking form or TEXT for a call back to your number from myself for initial contact | return time is the same day and sometimes within the hour.

 

Keep in mind that I may have had to step away from all forms of communication, please indicate a good time to reach you

When Texting this MUST include:

Name

Age

Your Location

Do not discuss services in a TEXT

Guaranteed response is by Website Introduction & filling out form and tell me the best way & time to contact you...this can then be in a form of a phone call.

SCREENING & VERIFICATION 

​I require screening for all prospective Suitors | Signature Experience. No exceptions, this is non-negotiable. I will not book the engagement if proper screening is not provided.

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A) Personal Identification: Valid unaltered/unmarked Drivers License and/or Passport.  It needs to show; Full legal name | date of birth | photo.  This is my method of screening and/or video call. ​

B ) USA | INTERNATIONAL.  I will not discuss any type of engagements | services until I have verified you. This is non negotiable 

c)  Phone | Video verification calls are strictly platonic. They are solely for the purpose of verification. Recording our call is prohibited and illegal. This is a violation of my consent and subject to legal action if recorded.

DEPOSITS: 

A 50% deposit is the final step required to reserve our engagement once screening is complete and is mandatory for bookings. Our engagement is reserved only once the deposit is received. Bookings made without a deposit are NOT considered.

 

Deposits can be made via an unpublished email address that I will send you after I have spoken with you via a video call to confirm it is actually me and you that we spoke with.  

Please free up your schedule for the set appointment time. I do not charge a cancellation fee; however, I will keep your deposit as a form of payment for that time.  Life Happens; however, my time is valuable and as important as yours Sir.

                         a) I travel and possibly not back in your city | location for an indeterminate amount of time. On that note, there                                      is no refund on Deposits except for extreme environmental conditions | situations

                          b) If there is a return in Deposit it will be refunded in the same manner in which it was received

                          c) Certain forms of deposits: ESSENTIAL COMPANION​   |  INTERNATIONAL & NATIONAL 3 - 10 TRAVEL

                               Canada | 3-5 Business days prior to appointment

                               Internationally |  10-21 Business days prior to appointment

                          d) If I need to Cancel, your deposit will be processed for refunded the same day

                                              

For those that would like a "Verifiable" Reference. I have unique references that I can presented at an appropriate time. Conversely, one can not ask for my references for a 1-2 hour experience.  Moreover, you have to be of the same socio-economic standing, as the references, in order to receive it and go through the required screening * Note I'm not easily hoodwinked. You have to do more than name dropping and facts that can be found on the internet. There are certain checks that are mandatory. Personal information can be collected to determine suitability and safety  for both parties for certain services. It is unlikely I will get into my/your references unless it is  one of the following and not limited to:

                                                       a) EXTENDED ARRANGEMENT | CONTRACT : INQUIRE

                                                 b) NDA

                                                   I guarantee privacy and discretion with every suitor I see.  Media Personalities and/or with privacy                                                       and safety  conncerns may  request a non-disclosure agreement.  Please have your representative                                                      get in touch so we can make  the necessary  arrangements. 

Submitting false information and/or documents will result in a lose in any form of  communication and meeting. My prospective clients and myself want to ensure upmost safety & suitability...especially someone that is in some way vulnerable | disabled. In most cases fraud is the culprit in this Industry and authorities can not do much except take your information and tell you sorry about your bad luck.  The latter can happen to both the client  & provider...lots of charlatans out there

When we Meet

Please have the compensation with my name on it in an envelop and placed in a visible location at the beginning of our engagement to avoid any awkwardness.  If we meet in a public setting you can place the investment in front of me when I arrive. The best practice is in a card, gift bag or book

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                                                 GENERAL COMMON  QUESTIONS

Vaccination Status: Triple vaccinated 2021- 2022

I can produce valid medical passbook of all my vaccinations and as a Health Care Professional have all updated immunizations. I receive my seasonal Flu vaccination every year. Some winters are worse than others for Flu and cold season. I may take time off during that time to insure we both do not get ill.

​​​Hygiene

​If our engagement is at my location there are:  fresh linens, soap, deodorant and mouth wash always available.  If you would like for things to run smoothly during our time together please excuse yourself after we get acquainted by taking a shower and be fresh as a daisy, as I will be for you. This is to ensure we have an amazing experience together.

What type of Clients do you Enjoy for your COMPANION Engagements? 

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Type? Guess what Gentlemen , there is no such thing as a type! People that inquire & booking with me come from all walks of life. I am very non judgmental. You can identify with any gender,  age -- please be at least 40+ and Gentlemen/Ladies/Couples welcome. However, I'm best suited for 50+ Middle/Upper class and not a stranger to very High Net Worth Gentlemen that enjoy an educated lady with a healthy glow, good vibe and a no-nonsense business practice and passion for this industry. I appreciate a gentleman that can communicate his needs, good hygiene and an all around good person that is open an honest and will go through my screening process. That being said, I reserve the right to respectfully decline a Gentleman for my safety or suitability. 

I am Exclusive in respects to both myself and the prospective client wanting to ensure safety, compatibility, satisfaction and be of good character, with no negative impact financially or personally.  Moreover, I maintain high standards of professionalism that my suitors require that always results in uncomplicated booking, and most of all discretion before and after the session is long over.  My Clients sleep well at night knowing I conduct myself a certain way to ensure I meet all of the latter requirements most people are seeking in a higher end service. 

Gentlemen/Ladies/Couples contact me due to my flexible schedule, diversity in my sessions and my extensive experience in different areas of the industry.

My Companion services are generally Gentlemen are 50+ or retired and not frequent flyers of Agencies, dubious Massage parlors or unsafe practices with multi partners....they appreciate the fact I am low volume, selective about who I see; and practice safety & discretion. 

I am a Lite & Lively "Elite" provider and once you meet me I'm warm and can be delightfully cheeky monkey and accommodate my guests at hosting Locations across Canada & USA. Generally gentlemen are Business Class  & Professionals. ​

First time readers...there are no engagements that are greater than or of a lesser quality...They are all different and people that use my services choose due to experience & preference not price. I do not fluctuate up & down in rates. My Elite Companion rates are set at par with most Upscale | Elite providers in B.C. and across Canada. ​

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I am a true Island girl through & through...I may spread my tiny wings and indulge in the good life; however, my heart belongs to my cat and the good people here on Vancouver Island that have left the corporate world & the big cities for the Central Island quiet lifestyle.  That's being said, I do not host at my home on Vancouver Island

*Note Gifts — Gifts are not expected or gratuities... If you feel inclined... I do not drink alcohol by choice | not a reformed alcoholic |  and as much as I love chocolate, it loves my hips as well. I love flowers but hate to see them die... I will graciously accept grapefruits, avacados, pestachios or always room for another small plant and we would become fast friends. However, if a box of salted dark caramel chocolates arrives along with you, I will scold you lovingly ;) 

What is an Experience with you like? 

​All experiences are unique to the individual person, as the chemistry differs from person to person. With the a GFE I prefer starting our time together by getting to know what your needs are and establishing boundaries to insure an amazing experience. Light conversation can then ease us into an engagement that flows more naturally.

For Gentlemen that are new to services or new to me, the most popular and requested engagement Gentlemen inquire and lean towards is the " Date Scenario "  Table 4-2  option listed on my Verified Adult Directories. SEE COMPENSATION PAGE FOR LINK.

Most of my engagements have a  2 HR minimum for all new Gentlemen | Couples | Women 

Do you offer the ABC SHOPPING | CHECK LIST SERVICE?

Gentlemen that have a smorgasbord of acronyms and identify with this type of service | we are not a good fit. When it comes to the GFE taking our time and allowing for our date to flow naturally leads to the best experience together. Gentlemen that get into the Ebb & Flo are usually met with welcomed surprises. I provide an amazing experience, which depends on our chemistry.  Conversely, If you have something special in mind do not be shy to ask if that can be included.  

What is your Incall policy? 

I host at 4 & 5 Star locations & residential private upscale homes at my discretion. I do not host at shared locations with other providers. My hosting locations in CANADA & USA will always accommodate a nice relaxing shower that Gentlemen need to take before we proceed with an amazing expereince. I have been formally Trained in SWEDISH & Stress Reduction, Holistic & Deep Tissue Massage....this can be an excellent way to start any session and great ice breaker for the new client. You will never feel like you were just a transaction that took place or mechanically awkward.

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Do you see Couples? | ᴍÉɴᴀɢᴇ À ᴛʀᴏɪꜱ

Yes! I see couples and joining you both in this experience or continuing one you have both grown to enjoy. I have had many pleasurable experiences with couples in both my professional and personal life. For the engagement to run smoothly,  getting to know one another without feeling rushed is instrumental so we can relax and enjoy our time together. I highly recommend we get into a natural Ebb & Flow together and discussing what you both feel comfortable with before hand. Respecting each other’s boundaries is important to me. I want you both to leave the experience "Floating & Glowing"

I want to add here that the couple can be two Ladies or Gentlemen 

 

Couples minimum of  2 hours.

Do you see Women? 

Absolutely! I enjoy the company & sweet pleasures of a woman and I welcome you to get into touch.

Do you have a Duo's Partner?

No! I only offer an amazing  ᴍÉɴᴀɢᴇ À ᴛʀᴏɪꜱ with you and your lady to enhance & deepen the bond that already exists between the both of you. Again I want to emphasis, I want you both to leave the experience "Floating & Glowing"

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Do you see people with Disabilities?

​YES! I am formally disability trained & friendly and medically trained. Please specify your disability when contacting. I have travelled with many " Persons with Disabilities " and was a strong voice in the 90's in policy

Do you allow reviews? 

I have a "Do Not Review" Policy for all my Companion Engagements. I do not support review boards. They jeopardize the health and safety of providers.  

 

My Guests are sometimes High Profile and do not do Reviews on any internet sex sites as this could jeopardize their discretion & mine. If they have an issue, they express their concerns directly to me. I expect that of all my clients. I would much rather hear your glowing comments or constructive criticism first hand. Even seasoned providers have room for improvement. Further, if you feel the need to expose/share all your intimate details and mine on internet I am not the provider for you. I have tangible and verifiable references as far back as 20 years. Notable and Recognizable North American Business Founders, Entrepreneurs in Publishing, Oil & Gas & the Hotel Industry.  ​​

If you are interested in finding out more about me and my services. Please ask me. I'm very straight forward and for those worried about an ongoing sessions, I'm not about to lead you down some financial garden path of doom. I'm not looking for a boyfriend/husband or empty your Bank Account. I am solvent and financially stable. This is a Professional Business for myself, I do not have a hidden agenda. That goes without saying if you are seeking a "Sugar Momma" or try to reap the benefits of a lifestyle you yourself do not already have, you need to look somewhere else. I have a lot of fun and have build a great repore with many people over a span 20+ years in different areas of the Industry and have cultivated a couple life long friendships.​

 

FMTY

Hotel and Travel expenses are covered by me and included in my rate for both Canada & USA and I book my own flight.  A minimum of 3 hours is required in Canada. For FMTY abroad a minimum booking of 3 days is required depending on the distance necessary to travel. Travel expenses must be prepaid, along with a 50% deposit to book our travel date. Flights exceeding 12 hours & requiring overnight travel incur a $1000 travel time fee. A Video Call is required prior to booking our extended travel. International rates & currency apply when meeting outside of Canada. 

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WILL YOU BE MY REFERENCE?

References are a huge commitment on my part as I am assuring a provider that you are safe and of good character. I will only provide references for clients that I have I have known for a minimum of 1 year. I will only answer reference requests if you have let me know prior to passing on my name & number to another provider.

 

IMAGES | FILMING

Filming and photography are strictly prohibited during our engagement, nor will I entertain requests for pictures prior to our Engagement.

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I am Always ready when you are Sir...

I hope I have answered some of your questions that are the most common, and at the same time demystified the process/expectations for introduction to " Elite" Services. For you Tigers I've yet to meet.... I hope you explore my website; there is much to offer the Discerning Gentleman. 

 Additionally, there is a wealth of information on Verified Adult Directories. I trust that you have found the answers to your questions, and are now ready to arrange a one-on-one rendezvous. Privacy and discretion are of utmost importance. I can assure you that the details you provide will not be compromised or be used for any other purpose beyond your initial screening.  The answers to most questions can be found throughout on my website and on links on my investment page.

 

Keep in mind that I will not tolerate any rude or very explicit language when you contact me. Remember your initial contact is how I decide if I will spend time with you.

All Engagements are an introduction and ground floor to many different possibilities. My number 1 Specialty is being an Honest & Kind human being and enjoying my time with you...

                        Respectfully,

              Mary J.

     

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