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      About Mary J.

I've always had an insatiable appetite for traditional GfE/KinK/BDSM. I am the epitome of the true and trusted Courtesan in every sense of the word and quite possibly the elusive one you have been searching for. One will find I am an accommodating and generous lover weather you are seeking a slow passionate  encounter or BDSM, either way you will long remember our time together. My look fits the occasion ~ From FINE dinning to sporting my trusted levies and flip-flops if we are away for a casual refreshing & relaxing intimate weekend and indulging in some local/ethnic foods.  Some of my engagements are for the Gentleman who are of the Sapiosexual persuasion due to my accomplishments & vast experience ... yet it is always my genuine interest in you and your needs.  It is my experience the mingling of the minds is a very sexy prelude that ignites the hottest encounters.

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Mary is my Birth name and the most trusted female name in the world....my parents named me correctly! The j is not for Jane...it is Janice....mother was a Janice Joplin fan. Again, a perfect fit. Together, you get a honest and genuine experience with a very creative classy lady.  Let's step outside the mundane together and discover something extraordinary while we celebrate your unique needs. I can make it all happen naturally and instinctively 

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Some of my accolades include:  National  "Award Winning" Licensed Hairdresser-Barber ; Medical Esthetician & Certified in Therapeutic Massage  & Health & Medical Industry and worked in Government. I was fortunate to have stable and comfortable upbringing  and in my teens worked to contribute towards my education as a part time Model  for Simpson Sears back at a time where the house hold catalog would disappear into the husbands garages for a sneak peak at what was then the lingerie section and was always up for the challenge of "Breaking" a horse for extra money at the Riding Academy. In my 20's and early 30's  I "cut and colored"  my way through to successfully obtaining two undergraduate Degrees. I spent a total of nine years in the Halls of Higher education. I have successfully achieved and been involved with some great projects and cut my teeth as an event planner on the Common Wealth Games in 1994. It was a tall order; yet, was a great introduction and learning experience...event planning is still part of my life when called upon. 

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I am a natural beauty with poise, grace and more than a pretty face. I have been described as a realistic optimist and sensible; and have been known to say on more than one occasion " Let's see where this leads"....spontaneous skinny dipping at a private beach and indulging in carnal desires opposed to poolside of a Cruise ship. I am well educated and play the Sax to relax. In the summer months I enjoy tooling around the Vancouver Island waters. In the winter: Mt. Washington, Whistler for some great skiing and Jackson Hole, Wy for some awesome snowboarding . I prefer Tim Horton's over Starbucks and fresh halibut right from the end of the dock. I have an affinity for the aerodynamics of cars and a true Island girl with my " Jeep ". My idea of a fun relaxed adventure would be to check out Costco in Tokyo, Japan. I enjoy the solace of my home on Vancouver Island and selective of the energy that I invite into my space. It could be you with the right introduction.

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I have a penchant for Korean & Japanese Art and have a flare for design/decor. I consider myself a life long learner. I dabble in writing and have published two novels from 2018 - 2020. You can find my nose in a book studying things like Quantum Physics & Mechanics, Infinity and how the horizontal symbol when turned vertical is actually the number 8...."LUCK" for the Chinese.  For the most part one can find me at a local Beach challenging myself in a game of backgammon  or helping someone with there Web Design -- or working on my own, drafting a new novel or working out -- swimming, to keep a nice healthy figure. A healthy fit body reflects a healthy mind that radiates positive energy. 

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Through the process of education and life experience I have learned to live life on lives terms; yet, I play by my own rules. Armed with my Esthetician-Massage Diploma and my previous experience, I started a business in " Therapeutic & Essential Massage " and after an extended hiatus, I have now reentered  Companionship in 2024

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I owe a lot of my success in life by  always trying to be a good person. I go to bed at night and I am grateful for everything the universe has given me and the incredible people on my journey...when I wake up in the morning, I strive to be a better person than the day before. I like to think I make a difference in an industry that can be so tainted with so much misrepresentation; conversely, there are so many amazing industry woman worth experiencing and have the good fortunate to mingle with some of them.

 

My Gentlemen are seeking  an Educated & Healthy woman that have not lived in the old confines of the North American mindset...especially when it comes to sensuality and sex; moreover, desiring compatible and personalized companionship, not just time spent.

 

Friends & suitors equate me to be a mini version of Dr. Tomorrow. I do not follow trends...I tend to start them or predict them! I have an innate and educated ability to delve into the tapestry of your mind and guide you in achieving a new sense of clarity and/or we have an amazing meeting of the souls that leaves a tiny footprint on each other to carry on in our life path.
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To keep my Chakra's balanced, I take unannounced time off. Not for long however.  In return, I can continue to offer exceptional sessions . When engaging with a Gentleman I am focused on providing excellence  with the highest levels of satisfaction. Familiarize yourself with my website and see if there is a experience you would like to partake in... I could tell you a lot more; however, lets save that for when we meet.

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